Go to the page (YouTube, Vimeo etc) where the video lives.

Click the
EMBED button. It's in blue here because I clicked on it.
On YOUTUBE it's under a button called SHARE.
A box will pop up that looks something like this:

Copy that code and paste it into your Forum post.
Then use the EMBED VIDEO feature at the top of the post area to add these tags:
<nabble_embed> {Your Code Here} </nabble_embed>
...AROUND the code.
IMPORTANT: THE USE THE
EMBED CODE - NOT THE URL OF THE YOUTUBE PAGE.
"You just need to go at that shit wide open, hang on, and own it." —Camp