I was one of those guys. I said I'd never get married until I was about 30.
And for many years after that, I said ... "Kids? No way."
But what happens to some guys, like me is you meet
the girl.So I reconsidered the possibility. The big fear for me, was ... could I still be an adventurer after I become dad?
You've got to be creative to get through the phases. Pregnancy was really no problem (for me anyway). Zelda came with me all winter to the cabin, slept late and read while I skied my brains out.
Then, fortuitously Neve was born on May 21 - exactly 6 months before opening day at Gore, and she was eligible at six months for the Gore daycare. Again I got my ski days in, and now Zelda was with me on the hill. After two years of day care we started to mix in lessons with BJ at Gore. I was a little anxious ... would Neve like it?
SHE WAS INTO it. Woohoo!
Now it's hiking. Can we get her into it?
Zelda is convinced, that at age 4, we can get her out to one of her favorite spots - The Blue Ledge in the Hudson Gorge. It 2.3 miles in each direction, on a rocky and muddy trail. While I don't mind carrying a 50lb pack, Neve's not necessarily into RIDING that far. Hmmm....
We're trying to work up to it this week. Yesterday, we walked to the Tailings at Garnet Hill - maybe a mile on what is essentially a road.
Then this morning, we went to Elizabeth Point on 13th Lake. Part road, part rocky trail, maybe a mile and a half.
This afternoon we decided to try the Balm of Gilead cliffs. It' probably only a 2.5 mile round trip, but there's some vert there.
We started with the proper motivation:

Things started out ok...

Then she really got INTO it....

The arrival at the top was really triumphant....

The obligatory B-of-G shot...

One great quote...
"Daddy when your shoes are muddy, it means you're having fun!"We'd promised 1 EXTRA MARSHMELLOW over the normal ration of two, if she made it to the top. We we're 100 percent prepared to carry her down, as it was late and the descent seemed more dangerous. She insisted on going for it, and actually starting HUCKING these logs and boulders that were in her path. A fearless Darksider in the making.
Awesome day.
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