it's nice to want to grant your kid the dream of attending any school they desire. its another thing to cripple your kid with debt. i dragged my daughter kicking and screaming to SUNY plattsburgh. she had grand ideas of attending all these different colleges. it came down to affordability. my daughter will graduate from SUNY with no debt and it turns out she loves it up there. be real to yourself, you also have a life.
if she had called my bluff i would of gone into debt and sent that cray bitch anywhere she wanted to go ,just to get her the hell out of the house. i got lucky